Adoption 101: What if the Adoptive Family Doesn’t Want to Adopt My Baby?
As a birth mother in the Oklahoma adoption process, you probably have some anxiety about finding an adoptive family for your child. We understand that it can often be difficult and time-consuming to find the perfect adoptive family, and you may be worried that the family you choose won’t want to adopt your baby. However, at Adoption Choices of Oklahoma, you will never have to worry about finding an adoptive family. We will work with you to find the perfect adoptive family for you and your child.
If you are a birth mother in Oklahoma looking for an adoptive family, we are here to help you no matter what. Adoption Choices of Oklahoma works with prospective adoptive families of all shapes and sizes who are more than willing to love your child, and we are dedicated to helping you find the perfect adoptive family.
Finding an Adoptive Family with Adoption Choices of Oklahoma
At Adoption Choices of Oklahoma, we have a variety of prospective adoptive families for you to choose from, all of whom are fully screened and prepared to unconditionally love your child. In fact, the hardest part of your decision will likely be settling on the adoptive family best suited to you and your child. Our adoption counselors and caseworkers will work with you to find the adoptive family that is right for you.
The first step of finding your child’s adoptive family is to consider your own adoption preferences. This includes asking yourself what kind of family arrangement you want your child to have and whether or not they should be raised in an environment that is similar to your own. Next, your adoption caseworker will show you some prospective adoptive parent profiles that line up with your preferences. Our prospective adoptive families come from all backgrounds, including traditional, single parent, LGBTQ+, and transracial family arrangements. From these prospective families, you can choose whichever you think is the best fit to raise your child.
It’s Never Too Late to Choose an Oklahoma Adoptive Family
While we understand that finding the perfect adoptive family can be difficult and confusing, it is important to remember that it is never too late to choose an adoptive family for your child. This means that you can choose an adoptive family at any point in your pregnancy or even after your child’s birth. At Adoption Choices of Oklahoma, our top priority is making sure the birth mother is comfortable with her adoption arrangement, no matter when it is completed.
Many birth mothers are increasingly choosing adoption after their child is born. This means that the entire adoption arrangement can be made after your child’s delivery, even choosing the adoptive family. Whenever you are ready to start the adoption process, our adoption counselors will work with you to find the perfect adoptive family for you and your child. If you decide to choose adoption while you are still in the delivery room, we will even be able to come to you in the hospital to start making an adoption plan, and all of our prospective adoptive families are prepared to come to you at a moment’s notice. After all, the most important part of any adoption arrangement is taking the time to feel comfortable and secure in your decision.
Find Your Child’s Forever Home with Adoption Choices of Oklahoma
As a birth mother in the Oklahoma adoption process, it is very common to worry about your child’s future with an adoptive family. However, it is important to remember that choosing adoption does not make your child unwanted, and at Adoption Choices of Oklahoma, we have many prospective adoptive parents and families waiting to welcome your child into their lives.
In working with our adoption agency, we can guarantee that your child will always be placed in a forever home with a loving family. Our prospective adoptive families are more than prepared to care for and love your child, even if you choose adoption in the delivery room or after your child is born. At Adoption Choices of Oklahoma, you will never have to worry about not finding an adoptive family for your child. We are dedicated to helping you plan for your child’s future with their forever family.
What Kind of Adoptive Family will Adopt Your Child?
At Adoption Choices of Oklahoma, we will work tirelessly to make sure you find the perfect adoptive family for your child. While we understand that this can be a difficult process, our adoption counselors and caseworkers are here to help and offer advice throughout your adoption journey, even if your child has already been born. Our prospective adoptive families are prepared for each and every outcome, and we are able to come to you within a moment’s notice.
The most important thing to remember throughout the adoption process is that your child will be cared for no matter what. In working with our adoption agency, we will make sure that your child is quickly placed in a forever home where they feel wanted and loved.
Adoption Choices of Oklahoma is a private adoption agency, licensed by the state of Oklahoma and leader in the adoption community. We have been assisting birth parents, children, and adoptive families in Oklahoma for over 19 years. Our staff members are committed to providing an ethical, empowering, and personalized adoption experience to all involved in the adoption process. If you are currently in the process of adopting a baby and have any questions or concerns, feel free to contact us.
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Meet the Author: Jennie Knuppel is a student at the University of Texas at Austin studying English Literature. She is currently enrolled in the English Honors Program, for which she is writing a thesis in comparative literature prior to graduating in the spring of 2022. Jennie has previously taken courses in literature and both creative and technical writing, and she spent four years working in her high school’s journalism department.
Jennie is also currently working as a barista, and, in her free time, she enjoys reading and spending time with her family and pets.
