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Adoption in Oklahoma: FAQs Adoptees Have about Birth Mothers

So, you’re interested in baby adoption in Oklahoma. It’s understandable that you have some questions. Adoption isn’t talked about often, and when it is, it’s sometimes misrepresented. Many of the adoptive parents who work with us are curious about birth mothers.

No matter the reason you’re interested in adoption in Oklahoma, it makes sense that you’d be curious about your future child’s biological mother. While every adoptive parent/birth mother relationship is different, there are some common questions we get about birth mothers.

At Adoption Choices of Oklahoma, we know that the relationship between a birth mother and adoptive parents is very important. We’re here to support you in your relationship and answer any questions you have to prepare you for your adoption journey.

4 FAQs Adoptees Have about Birth Mothers

Although we weren’t able to include everything here, we compiled a list of five frequently asked questions we get about birth mothers in Oklahoma. If we didn’t answer the question, you’re looking for below. You can find more information in our birth mother blog.

  • Why Do Women Decide to Place Their Baby for Adoption?

As you’re beginning the adoption process, you may be wondering why some women decide to place their baby for adoption. No birth mother is the same, but there are some common reasons women might make this decision. A birth mother might choose adoption for the following reasons: 

  • She isn’t financially or emotionally prepared to raise a child
  • She is facing teen pregnancy
  • This is an unplanned pregnancy and she  is looking for options
  • Her current environment isn’t a suitable place to raise a child
  • She is focused on school or her career
  • She isn’t interested in parenthood

No matter the reason a woman seeks out adoption, her experience is valid, and she has the right to make this choice.

  • How Will I Be Connected with a Birth Mother?

At Adoption Choices of Oklahoma, we have potential adoptive parents fill out a profile, and they are added to our waiting families list. You’ll provide your background, information about your culture and traditions, hobbies, and other facts you’d like to highlight. This will allow birth mothers to get to know you better, and we’ll connect you with any birth mother who thinks you could be a good fit.

If you decide that a particular birth mother isn’t a good match for you, that’s perfectly okay. You won’t be forced to work with anyone. We want to make sure your relationship is beneficial for both you and the birth mother you end up working with.

  • What Kind of Relationship Will I Have with the Birth Mother?

The kind of relationship you have with your birth mother will be entirely up to you and her. Some birth mothers decide to have a closed adoption, never directly communicating with adoptive parents themselves. However, most women will want to have some sort of relationship with you. You’ll be able to decide how much communication you’ll have with the birth mother during and after the adoption process when you discuss it with her personally.

  • At What Point During the Adoption Process in Oklahoma does a Birth Mother Relinquish Her Parental Rights?

Even though most birth mothers are satisfied with their decision to place their baby for adoption, every once in a while, a woman may change her mind. A birth mother has the right to end an adoption agreement at any point during her pregnancy in the state of Oklahoma. However, after the baby is born, a birth mother will sign paperwork at the hospital relinquishing her parental rights. If she chooses to do so, her decision is permanent, and you will have complete guardianship over your baby.

Adoption in Oklahoma: How to Adopt a Baby in Oklahoma

Adoption is such a crucial part of our society, and it’s the way thousands of children are able to find loving homes every year. Even though adoption is a loving, beautiful process, it’s very easy to become overwhelmed during the process. So, it’s important that you seek out support.

The first step of any adoption journey is reaching out to one of the adoption agencies in Oklahoma. Because adoption can be a complicated process, and there are many legal steps you’ll need to take, it’ll make the process much smoother after you connect with a group of experts. 

At Adoption Choices of Oklahoma, we’re here to support you throughout your adoption journey. We’ll help set you up with adoption resources, connect you with a birth mother, and provide legal and emotional counseling. Please feel free to reach out if you’re ready to start your adoption journey today.

Adoption Choices of Oklahoma is a private adoption agency, licensed by the state of Oklahoma and leader in the adoption community. We have been assisting birth parents, children, and adoptive families in Oklahoma for over 19 years. Our staff members are committed to providing an ethical, empowering, and personalized adoption experience to all involved in the adoption process.  If you are currently in the process of adopting a baby and have any questions or concerns, feel free to contact us.
Toll-free: 800-898-6028 | OKC Local: 405-755-1999 | Tulsa Local: 918-447-7777 | Text: 405-310-8790Email

About the Author: Alexandra Georgiton is a fourth-year student at the University of Cincinnati studying Rhetoric and Professional Writing, and is receiving certification in Copyediting and Publishing. She has been passionate about the English language for her entire life, and reading and writing have always been her favorite hobbies. She enjoys professional writing and editing because she loves to use her talent and love of writing to make a difference in the world.

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