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Choosing a Single Man to Adopt Your Baby While Facing an Unplanned Pregnancy  in Oklahoma

Choosing adoption may feel scary and difficult when you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy, but adoption agencies in Oklahoma – like Adoption Choices of Oklahoma – can empower you and guide you through the process. As a birth mother, you’ll have control over your entire adoption plan. You’ll have a say in who will raise your child. There are a plethora of potential adoptive families out there. As a result, there are several different ways to approach adoption: transracial (interracial) adoption, LGBTQ+ adoption, single-parent adoption, etc. Single-parent adoption is when an unmarried man or an unmarried woman adopts a child to raise as their own. Single-parent adoption is more common than it used to be. Even so, it’s difficult for single men to adopt. When you start working on your adoption plan, you’ll have to decide who will make a suitable adoptive family. You’ll have to ask yourself several important questions.

Do I want a couple to raise my child? Can a single person provide everything my child will need growing up? Is a man capable of nurturing a child by himself, or would a woman be better suited for the job?

Single-parent adoption isn’t for everyone, but it’s important to consider what’s available before choosing an adoptive family.

What to Consider When Choosing a Single Man as an Adoptive Parent

There are several factors to consider when choosing an adoptive family for your child. You’ll have to learn as much about the potential adoptive family as possible. The information you obtain will help you make your final decision.

If a potential adoptive parent is a single man, you’ll need to know if he is prepared for fatherhood. Here are some things to consider before choosing a single man as an adoptive parent.

  • Lifestyle

When choosing an adoptive parent, you should try to learn as much about him as possible. You can gauge what type of person he is based on his personality, hobbies, and interests. Ask him what he likes to do in his spare time. Is he someone who goes out all the time, or is he someone who likes to relax at home?

Based on what you learn, you can determine whether he’s ready for fatherhood or not. You can discern how responsible he is, and you can discern whether he’ll be there for your child or not.

  • Community and Environment

It’s important to consider the type of environment the adoptive parent lives in, the type of environment your child will grow up in. Before you choose an adoptive parent, ask him about where he lives. Does he live in a small town or a large city? Ask him to describe the community and anything in the area: schools, businesses, parks, etc.

You should also ask him about his social circle. Does he have any close friends or relatives that he sees on a regular basis? If so, how do they feel about his decision to adopt as a single man? Are they supportive? Do they believe he’s ready to take on such a huge responsibility?

  • Financial Situation

Finding an adoptive parent who can afford to raise a child is crucial. As such, you should learn about his financial situation before finalizing your decision. Does he have a stable job that pays well? Ask him where he works or what he does for a living.

Also, does he already have money saved up for the future? If he does have money put aside for your child, that serves as a testament to his preparedness.

Choosing an Adoptive Parent at Adoption Choices of Oklahoma

Different birth mothers have different wants and needs. They have different thoughts on what makes a suitable adoptive family. You may already know what you want for your child, and if you don’t, Adoption Choices of Oklahoma can provide guidance and answer your questions. We can help you decide if single-parent adoption is right for you.

If you’re ready to embark on your adoption journey – or if you have any additional questions about choosing a single man to adopt your baby – be sure to contact us.

Adoption Choices of Oklahoma is a private adoption agency, licensed by the state of Oklahoma and a leader in the adoption community. We have been assisting birth parents, children, and adoptive families in Oklahoma for over 19 years. Our staff members are committed to providing an ethical, empowering, and personalized adoption experience to all involved in the adoption process.  If you are currently in the process of adopting a baby and have any questions or concerns, feel free to contact us.
Toll-free: 800-898-6028 | OKC Local: 405-755-1999 | Tulsa Local: 918-447-7777 | Text: 405-310-8790Email

Meet the Author: Heather Valenzano is an up-and-coming content creator with a bachelor’s degree in mass communications and a minor in English. After graduating from Iona College in 2019, she got an internship – and then a part-time job – writing blogs and managing social media accounts for Hip New Jersey, a lifestyle website owned by Long Shot Productions. She has also produced website and social media content for CommonPage, an external collaboration platform.

When she isn’t working, Heather enjoys watching crime shows like Forensic Files or posting book reviews to under the username “LavenderLiterature2.”

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