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Letter from a Birth Mother: Choosing a Closed Adoption

Dear Baby,

Choosing to place you for adoption was one of the hardest things I have ever done. However, I wanted to have a future brighter than the one I could provide. Choosing a closed adoption was even harder, but I knew that it would be hard for me to be part of your life. Especially knowing that you would never fully be mine again after you left my arms. There are some days that I wish life were different back when you were born; however, I can’t change the past.

Looking back, I am so glad that I made the choices that I did.  My adoption caseworker says that your adoptive family loves you so much, and that warms my heart. Knowing that you are happy and healthy makes up for all of the painful moments I endured.

I can’t help but imagine the little person you are becoming. Nothing will ever erase the love I hold for you in my heart. Even though I am not involved in your life, and you may not know much about me, I am always thinking of you.


Your birth mother

Choosing Closed Adoption in Oklahoma

If you are an expectant mother considering a closed adoption in Oklahoma, our adoption center is here for you! While Adoption Choices of Oklahoma strongly advocates for open adoption, we will still support you, no matter what level of adoption openness you desire. There is no requirement for you to be involved in your child’s life. We simply want what is best for you.

Ready to begin your closed adoption or want to discuss your adoption options in Oklahoma? Give us a call today!

Adoption Choices of Oklahoma is a private adoption agency, licensed by the state of Oklahoma and leader in the adoption community. We have been assisting birth parents, children, and adoptive families in Oklahoma for over 19 years. Our staff members are committed to providing an ethical, empowering, and personalized adoption experience to all involved in the adoption process.  If you are currently in the process of adopting a baby and have any questions or concerns, feel free to contact us.
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Meet the Author: Grace Myers is a sophomore digital media major at North Greenville University. She loves writing and hopes to pursue a career in journalism or public relations after graduating.

An adoptee herself, Grace is passionate about writing for adoption. She especially loves hearing adoption stories and getting to know a variety of people.

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