My Adoption Choices in Oklahoma
As an expecting mother, there are things that you need to start thinking about, choices that you might need to start considering, and decisions that need to be made. There are several options that a birth mother has when experiencing an unexpected pregnancy. Your options are: to parent your child, terminate your pregnancy, or give your baby up for adoption. There is no right answer. The choice is yours to make, and it should be based on your wants and needs. At Adoption Choices of Oklahoma, we understand that you might be worried about your future and your child’s future. We understand you might not feel fully capable of making such a big decision without knowing all the necessary information. That is why we are here to help guide you and provide you with everything you need to make this decision.
Adoption Choices of Oklahoma is a licensed private agency adoption in Oklahoma. We can provide several different services for expecting mothers, such as counseling and guidance during such an emotional time. If you are ever in need of someone to talk to, whether it is personal or seeking more information, we are here for you. You should never feel that you are alone in this because you are not.
Why Choose Adoption?
Adoption is a wonderful and responsible option for any birth mother experiencing an unexpected pregnancy. There can be a lot of emotions surrounding pregnancy and can leave women feeling worried and helpless. An adoption is an option that you can turn to when you do not know what else to do. There is no shame in choosing adoption. There are a lot of reasons that birth mothers choose adoption every day. Not everyone is in the same situation, so you need to make the decision that best fits you and your current life. You might not be in the best living situation financially or physically. You might also not be mentally capable of raising a child, and that is okay! There is no judgment. Everyone deserves to do what is best for them, especially you.
What Are The Types of Adoption?
As you have many choices when it comes to what you do with you and your child, there are also many choices after choosing the route of adoption. You have a lot of decisions to make at the beginning of your journey to set you up for success in the long term. One of those choices is the type of adoption you wish to have. There are three types of adoption: open, semi-open, and closed. Not one type is right for everyone, and it is up to the comfortability of the birth mother and to find an adoptive family that is compatible with the level of openness. With everything in life, each option has its advantages and disadvantages.
Open adoptions allow for the birth mother to remain in contact with their child and the adoptive family. Semi-open adoptions are very similar to fully open ones, except they are more limited in contact. There might not be as regularly scheduled contact between the birth mother and their child. Closed adoptions are completely different and offer no contact. The birth mother will know nothing about the adoptive family and vice versa. Every family is different, and one option might not be the best for everyone. The level of openness should be decided in the beginning and be mutual between the birth mother and the adoptive family.
If you are pregnant and considering adoption, we have all the answers you might need and can offer you solutions. This might not be the situation you imagined, it might be too soon or something you never intended on. Unplanned pregnancyies are quite common and are nothing to be ashamed of or worried about. You have options. You have solutions. Do not stress too much about the next steps. Reach out to us to learn more and understand the options you have. Never feel that you are alone in this or like you have to go through this alone because we want to help you. We have helped many birth mothers have a successful pregnancy and adoption experience over the year.
Adoption Choices of Oklahoma is a private adoption agency, licensed by the state of Oklahoma and a leader in the adoption community. We have been assisting birth parents, children, and adoptive families in Oklahoma for over 19 years. Our staff members are committed to providing an ethical, empowering, and personalized adoption experience to all involved in the adoption process. If you are currently in the process of adopting a baby and have any questions or concerns, feel free to contact us.
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Meet the Author: Gabriella Dobson was born and raised in Ohio. She is currently a senior at Miami University majoring in professional writing with a focus on editing. She also minors in criminology and general business. She is a skilled barista and enjoys sipping her coffee with a good book in her hand. She is passionate about helping others and making a difference in the lives around her. With her involvement in St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital and Women Helping Women, she is able to provide resources for those in need of support.
