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Will I Regret Giving My Baby Up for Adoption?

By David Seamonson

When it comes to adoption, one of the main concerns that mothers have about the process is if they will regret their decision later on in their life. When things get better, and your career has taken off, you are educated, you are in a steady relationship, and you are thinking about kids, you may wonder how the baby you gave up for adoption is doing. While it is possible to look back on the adoption experience and wonder what happened, know that an adoption now reopens your future, and you will have a better life.

What is Adoption in Oklahoma, and Will I Regret Giving Up My Baby for Adoption?

Everyone has heard the term adoption but does not know what the full extent of the meaning is. Adoption is when you carry a baby to term, give birth, and then have another family raise that child. This means that you will not be a part of the child’s life and that you will have closed the door on that part of your life.

That is not true. An adoption opens doors and closes others, but that does not mean that you will never see your child again. Depending on what you choose as an adoption option, you will have the ability to see your child again, but just not under your care.

What Adoption Choices of OK can do for You

We are a Tulsa adoption agency, with other locations throughout Oklahoma, that has been certified, and we can help you through the adoption process. How we do this is by providing you with a 24/7 available call line providing available emotional support, and we will take you to step by step through the adoption process. Our specialists make the adoption process as easy on you as we can and make sure that you are always in control. They will provide lots of guidance in the process so that you know that you are not alone when you are considering adoption. They will help you make sure that your decision is the best one that you can make for you and your baby.

Starting off the adoption process, we will be asking what your needs are and what kind of things are important for your child to have even though you will not be there. This will help our team find a great adopting family that will support your same beliefs and raise your child with those ideas in mind. To further help you out in this process, we will ask you what adoption option you would like in the future. This allows you to determine how much contact you would like to have with your baby in the future. 

Choosing an Adoptive Family

Each adopting family will have had an adoption specialist go through their home and determine if their home can properly raise a child. They have had research done on their house and background checks and have been interviewed. We have made sure that each one of the families that want to adopt is a safe place for your baby to grow up in.

You will be the one to select a family for your child, not us. We are only here for guidance. We are not here to force you into a decision. You are in complete control of the process so that when you do part with your child, you will know that the family they are going into will be the best one for them. When you know that your child is in good hands, then there is no reason to regret an adoption decision. They are in caring hands with a family that will support them, love them, and provide them with whatever they will need.

Emotional and Financial Adoption Support

In an Oklahoma adoption through Adoption Choices of Oklahoma, we will help you create a budget to help you through your pregnancy. This allows you to not have to worry about rent, medical bills, groceries, bills, and maternity clothing. Our goal is to place you in the driver’s seat of the adoption process, and we will help you where we can.

We have emotional support experts as well so that if you feel like adoption is not for you and you could be having second thoughts, then you can talk to them about your concerns, and they will help you through the difficult time. Adoption is not easy, that is what makes you stronger than most people, and we want you to know that you are able to make this decision with as much control as possible. You are the only person who knows what is right for you.

Will I Regret Giving Up My Baby?

You may not regret your decision to an Oklahoma adoption. Our adoption agencies are with you every step of the way. They will help you with emotional support, finances, family selection, and being with you even after the process is complete. You are in the driver’s seat. We are only helping you along the way.

Adoption Choices of Oklahoma is a private adoption agency licensed by the state of Oklahoma and a leader in the adoption community. We have been assisting birth parents, children, and adoptive families in Oklahoma for over 19 years. Our staff members are committed to providing an ethical, empowering, and personalized adoption experience to all involved in the adoption process.  If you are currently in the process of adopting a baby and have any questions or concerns, feel free to contact us.

Toll-free: 800-898-6028 | OKC Local: 405-755-1999 | Tulsa Local: 918-447-7777 | Text: 405-201-6643 | Email

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